Friday, July 31, 2009

7 Quick Takes Friday

1. I have been very neglectful with my blog this summer. It seems my summer has been entirely consumed with the construction loan, college girl's student loans and our health insurance changes. I really, really dislike days that are taken up with the phone, computer and paperwork, as my house dissolves into a shambles around me and my kids watch too much TV. We are nearing the end of all this business, so I hope to get to my usual summer "organizing" routine, which may turn into "organizing and packing". Ho boy...can I get an extension on summer?

2. My washer and dryer are slowly heading toward that big laundry room in the sky. I am trying to keep them alive for a couple more months, at which point, hopefully, we will move and I will have brand new machines. But for now, I am having to dry each load twice (washer doesn't spin all the water out, and dryer is sluggish) making it really difficult to keep up with the growing laundry pile. Well, before Mt. Never-rest toppled over, crushing someone, I decided to give myself and my machines a break and took the whole mess to the laundromat. Three 60 lb washers and 3 dryers later (not to mention $23.00) and all my laundry was clean!!! What a blessed relief!! I know it is really lame blogging about laundry, but this truly was such a relief to me that I had to write about it. Does anyone else feel that overwhelmed feeling when the laundry is out of control? But when the laundry is caught up, everything feels doable and OK? It seems that the laundry is a barometer for me. Is that really weird?

3. Buyer Beware!!! We ran out of my husband's favorite headache medicine, so like the good wife that I am :) I rushed out to buy him some more...well, the next time I went to the store, anyway. I noticed some migraine medicine next to the headache medicine on the shelf and took a look at the bottle and ingredients, thinking he would like the extra strength stuff better--we do have migraine headaches in the family, even some of the kids, unfortunately, so headache relief is serious business.
This headache medicine has 3 ingredients:
-acetaminophen 250 mg
-aspirin 250 mg
-caffeine 65mg
The migraine medicine, on the other hand has these three ingredients:
-acetaminophen 250 mg
-aspirin 250 mg
-caffeine 65mg
THE EXACT SAME INGREDIENTS IN THE EXACT SAME AMOUNTS!!!
This was true for the name brand stuff as well as the generic, store-brand stuff. The only difference was price (oh, and shape of tablets!) The regular headache medicine (store-brand) was $3.39 for 100 tablets, but the migraine medicine (store-brand) was $4.49 for 24 caplets....of the SAME EXACT MEDICINE!! What a scam! I was more than a little ticked off at this dishonesty, but I did purchase the (regular headache) medicine anyway... all my outrage had given me a headache...

4. My four year old daughter hates to have her hair brushed. It is an awful ordeal every day. The other night she had a bath and I was trying to put a comb through her (well-conditioned) hair. She ran away from me screaming, "Dont' brush my hair. You will rue it!"
What?
Rue?
Despite her impressive vocabulary, we had a little chat about threatening Mommy.

5. It is raining in NH today. I don't mind since it has been really hot and humid this week. We have had a LOT of rain this summer. A lot. Record-breaking type rain. But, as a minister shared at a funeral my mother-in-law attended this week, we have had a lot of rainbows also. More rainbows than I've seen in a summer before. Big, vivid rainbows. Even double rainbows. There's always a silver lining. It's all about perspective.

6. I really wish there were pots of gold at the ends of the rainbows. (student loans...yuk!)

7. I cannot think of a story funnier than Jen's about the man stumbling half asleep into the hallway in the hotel. So, I am going to hijack Jen's quick take #2 for my #7. Go read it here!!
It is hilarious!!

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Fiat


The heavenly host welcomes a new little saint. Please pray for this family. Click image above to visit Matthew Karol Snow's family blog.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Jesus' Grandparents


Almighty God, heavenly Father, we remember in thanksgiving this day the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary; and we pray that we all may be made one in the heavenly family of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Thank you also, dear Lord, for the blessing of the grandparents in our lives. Please bless them in return for the love, care and concern with which they shower us. Keep them close to you, guide and protect them, safeguard their physical, spiritual and emotional well-being and let them experience deeply the love their family has for them.

Sts. Anne and Joachim, grandparents of Our Lord, pray for us!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Some Good News


After asking everyone to pray for so many serious intentions, it is my pleasure to be able to be the bearer of glad tidings. There was good news today for baby Matthew and his family. Go here and see!

Sweet Successes Midsummer edition


"It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph. So on Thursday of each week, we do exactly that."

Visit Faith and Family Live for more small successes!

1.
I am selling old textbooks on Ebay and have already made a LOT of money, and that was just the first stack of books I posted!! I loaded up the rest of the books for sale this week. It is a bit addictive to log onto ebay and watch the balance climb! Who would've guessed that selling old textbooks is almost as fun as buying new ones!!! Especially when selling the old means I have more money to buy the new!!

2.
The curriculum for my 2nd and 5th grade boys is all planned out for next year. And the books are ordered. Plus, my sister-in-law and I have finalized our co-op plans and completed a month's worth of lesson plans (I am totally impressed with us--thanks, Serena!). My high school senior, however, has changed things up on me. The good, no...great news is that he has decided what he wants to study in college. Yay! The bad news is that we were gearing his high school curriculum towards the medical field, but his new chosen field of study is the technical field. So, I need to swap things around a bit to make sure he has the classes he needs. Back to the drawing board for me.

3.
Well, I was able to heave a huge sigh of relief when I turned in all the construction loan papers to the bank. I know I haven't blogged about this at all. It seemed so up in the air that I have been reluctant to mention it. A couple of months ago, a friend of ours who sells modular homes, and with whom hubby has a good working relationship, was hired to tear down a modular house that was located on a nearby lake. It seems the new owners wanted to get rid of the 5 BR 3BA Colonial and put up a new $4 million house. So, our friend had this huge house available at a really reasonable price and offered it to us! The house is perfectly sized for us. It was like manna from heaven. Still, I didn't want to get too excited. So, we went on a hunt for some land, all the while just praying for God's guidance and His will to be accomplished. Years ago, my cousin bought my grandparents property and has sold a couple of lots, so I asked her if she had any more lots for sale. She didn't. That was OK, as I am not thrilled at the thought of my grandparents' property being divided up anyway. We continued our novena to St. Joseph and the following week, a parcel of land came up for sale, on the same road! We made an offer, which was accepted and then we began the construction loan process, which is lengthy. Well, the papers are at the bank now, and a million things can go wrong between now and closing, so I am still trying not to get my hopes up. But if anyone wanted to ask St. Joseph (or your own favorite saint) to guide this process for us, we would really appreciate the prayers!



Sunday, July 19, 2009

Another prayer request

So sorry this has become quite a sad blog lately, but these are important requests. A little baby in utero is desperately in need of prayer. Please add Matthew Karol Snow to your list. His mom has an update here. Thank you.

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Lord, Have Mercy

A young mom we have known since she was born, Hillary St. Pierre, has been battling Hodgkins Lymphoma for several years now. She has recently been given some bad news. Please add her to your prayers. She and her family have been through so much.




Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.

Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.

Amen.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Prayer request

The Savage family could really, really use some prayers right now. We know our God is a God of miracles, and that is what we are asking for. Please consider joining me in storming heaven for Blaine Savage and his family.

Potter or Not? Conclusion

How appropriate that I should finish reading the 7th and last Harry Potter novel just days before the new movie, Harry Potter and the Half-blood Prince, is released. It's all Harry, all the time!
I am so glad I chose to wait until I finished the series before giving any kind of opinion. In fact, I wavered in my opinion throughout the first 6 books, seeing good messages, but not liking some other aspects of the books. The 7th book, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, brings the story to a final, exhilarating climax, and cemented my opinion for me.
Years ago, I was part of an apostolate in which I learned much about deliverance, evil spirits, and the occult. From all the negativity surrounding the Harry Potter books, I assumed I knew what to expect from them. True evil is subtle, insidious; sneaking its way inside your mind before you become aware of the need to protect yourself from it. This is what I was expecting; books that made real magic look attractive, fun, and innocent, thus luring unsuspecting innocents into a dangerous attraction to the occult.
The Harry Potter books are nothing like that. Truly, they are NOT what I expected at all. They are not evil, and the magic is certainly not occult magic. In fact, as I closed the cover after finishing the first book, all I could think was, "THAT's what all the fuss was about?!"
I think there was a lot of fear surrounding these books (and we should ALWAYS be cautious about magic and the occult; there is a real danger there) but the fear surrounding Harry Potter was fear of the unknown, since most of the sources which warned me against the books had never read them!!
Before I continue, I want to say that I do see a danger in the books. First of all, they are scary! People die and there are gruesome monsters and images which would be scary to young children.
It is unfortunate that J.K. Rowling decided to use magic and wizards and witches as the means by which she tells her tale, because if she had used, say, princes and princesses and fairy godmothers, there would have been no controversy. It bothers me to call witches and wizards "good". Even though the magic is not occult magic I think there is a danger in allowing young children or unprepared children to read the books. By "unprepared" I mean, children who do not understand the difference between the evil in true black magic and Harry Potter's fantasy magic.

As a child, I loved the TV shows, "Bewitched" and "I Dream of Jeannie". I did not go to church or have any connection with the spiritual world. I believe, even as a young girl, I was drawn to spirituality. I remember asking my mother why we didn't go to church, and envying my friends when they talked about going to catechism and Mass. Something was missing in my life, and without a positive connection to the spiritual realm, I became strongly attracted to magic. I can remember in 3rd, 4th and 5th grades having a friend who was also attracted to magic. We pretended, perhaps harmlessly, to be Samantha or Tabitha or Serena, from "Bewitched". We also played, perhaps harmfully, with Ouija boards and tried to hold seances. I did not understand the evil in those things back then; it was my only connection to the spiritual world.
I believe Harry Potter could hold the same danger for a young, "unprepared", or spiritually empty young person. In fact, even though he has been well catechized, I would not allow my 10 year old to read the books, as I don't think he has a good grasp of what real black magic is all about and how it differs from Harry's magic. There is a big difference between the two, but a young child will struggle with the subtleties of it. Even if my 16 year old were to decide to read Harry Potter, I would keep checking in with him to make sure his understanding was clear and correct. Parental support, guidance and discussion are key and make all the difference.
With that said, assuming the child in questions is well-"prepared" and spiritually mature, and also assuming an appropriate level of parental involvement, the Harry Potter books are wonderful stories of the eternal struggle between good and evil, and provide excellent examples for children of the virtues of selflessness, courage, and humility. I am so glad I undertook the challenge to read them all. I would even be so bold to say that the final scenes in the final book rival the courage, virtue and nobility of character seen in my favorite, Tolkein's Return of the King. And that is saying something!

I'd like to address a few different aspects of the series that struck me. First of all is the magic. As I have previously stated, I expected something subtle, dark, and insidious. Harry's magic is cartoon magic, fairy tale magic. I was surprised to see that instead of being hidden and dark, the magic was blatant and very stereotypical...they wear robes and pointed hats, use wands and have owls as pets and messengers. It was quite comical, actually... a caricature of magic. There were no satanic symbols or references of any kind. The magic in Harry Potter is pure fantasy. Critics have stated that there is danger in using magic (evil) for good, that it turns the moral order upside down to think of magic in a positive light. I can see their point and am quite vigilant about books, movies or TV shows that blur the lines between good and evil. This, actually, was my main concern about the Potter books before I read them. Making evil look good is what the occult does. But, as I have stated, the magic in Harry Potter is fairy tale magic, not occult, and no one thinks Cinderella needs to return the beautiful ball gown or her glass slippers and stay home from the ball because they were procured with magic.

I was also surprised that on Halloween, there were no pranks, trick or treating or evil-doing. They had a big feast at Hogwarts, just as they did at Christmas and other celebrations. One would think that if Rowling was writing a satanic book, she would have made great use of the Halloween celebration,which is the Satanist's feast day and the day on which there is more occult activity than any other day of the year. But there was nothing. In fact, while the Christmas celebration is mentioned in each book, Halloween is only mentioned in a few.

Also, when we think of witches and evil, we think of them preferring the bad, dark, and the ugly things in life over the true, the good and the beautiful to which humankind, made in the image and likeness of God, is naturally drawn. In Harry Potter, the "good" human beings, who may or may not be magical, demonstrate true, good and beautiful qualities and are drawn to those things. They do not prefer darkness to light, ugliness to beauty, or filth to purity.

There is a reference to the occult, though. Harry and his classmates have to take Divination, a class which requires them to read tea leaves, crystal balls and palms. I was actually quite impressed that the books ridicule this practice. We find out that Dumbledore, the headmaster, would rather Hogwarts not teach Divination at all. Professor McGonagall, a steadfast defender of the true, the good and the beautiful, expresses her disdain for divination. Professor Trelawney, the Divination teacher, is portrayed as a fraud. Hermoine, Harry's friend, drops the class as so much rubbish. This class, the only reference to the occult in the books, is ridiculed and considered a sham. Another surprise for me.

Another area I would like to address is Harry's Character. I was surprised to find Harry a humble, likeable fellow. Raised by verbally and emotionally abusive relatives after the death of his parents, Harry does not slip into the hard, crusty bully character as do so many abused children. He retains in his character an innate goodness, humility and hope. It is quickly apparent that his formation is incomplete, as he is very prone to rule breaking. Honestly, this drove me crazy!! Even though I did not find the books evil, I was quite distressed after reading the first book, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. There is a scene where they are learning to fly on broomsticks and are warned that they will be expelled if they fly while the teacher leaves the vicinity. In his earnest desire to help a friend, Harry ends up flying. Another teacher notices his natural skill and Harry ends up being rewarded for breaking the rules. This really, really burned me up. I mean, really. But I decided to keep reading the books because there were too many good points to ignore. I was still skeptical of Harry Potter.
Harry and Ron continue to break the rules, with Hermoine, most times, acting as their Jiminy Cricket consciences, reproving and correcting (um...nagging) them. As the novels continued and Harry matured and received the instruction and wisdom of the revered Professor Dumbledore, his rule breaking was met, more and more often with punishment. Harry spent a lot of time in detention. He began to display a nobility of character, willing to suffer for the sake of what was right. He became strong, brave and virtuous.
His inability to trust adults with his problems (leading him to break more rules to deal with situations himself) could be explained by the fact that his aunt and uncle were so cruel to him that trusting an adult to actually help him was just not something he was accustomed to. But, still the rule breaking bothered me, a lot.

The messages or themes that occur in the books can only be described as Christian. Believe it or not, I found the books to be pro-life and pro-family. I will try to outline below some of the messages I found in the book:

*Harry is attacked by Lord Voldemort when he is one year old. Harry's parents die in the struggle, but before she died, Lily Potter, Harry's mother, sacrificed herself to save Harry. Her sacrificial love was what saved Harry from death. In fact, Lord Voldemort's curse glanced off of Harry, leaving a lightning shaped scar on his forehead, and rebounded onto Voldemort himself, nearly destroying the evil wizard. Love is the greatest power and it is a power that Voldemort knows nothing about. This power of the sacrificial love of a mother for her son is the main theme in the book. Harry is saved repeatedly by his mother's sacrifice of love.

*Voldemort, like Hitler, wants to preserve a pure race, and once he regains his human body and full power (book 7) he begins his plan to exterminate those with mixed blood. One wizard who is working with the underground in opposing Voldemort says, "We're all human, aren't we? Every human life is worth the same, and worth saving." I'd say that is a pretty pro-life statement.

* In several instances, Harry longs for his family. Standing before a mirror that shows you your deepest desires, Harry sees his parents standing beside him. At one point, as he enters adolescence, he expresses the desire to have a father to talk things over with. The Weasley family is portrayed as a loving, if chaotic, circle of love and belonging. The most powerful pro-family statement in my opinion was in book 7. A newly-married friend of Harry's late father, whose wife is now expecting their first child, comes to see Harry and asks if he can accompany Harry on his mission. Harry speaks very bluntly to him. "I'm pretty sure my father would have wanted to know why you aren't sticking with your own kid, actually...My father died trying to protect my mother and me, and you reckon he'd tell you to abandon your kid to go on an adventure with us?...Parents shouldn't leave their kids unless--unless they've got to." Wow. I don't know of too many books, movies, or TV shows that make such pro-family statements as this. Powerful.

* As I mentioned before, the sacrificial love of Harry's mother saved him. This theme runs throughout all 7 books, most powerfully in the final book, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. In the end, the evil wizard cannot kill Harry because of Lily Potter's sacrifice. But Lily's is not the only sacrifice. Harry learns he must offer himself to Voldemort in order to save his friends. It brings to mind the scripture, "No greater love than this...." As the climax builds in the end, the power of love, above all, conquers evil. Harry discovers that love usually involves sacrifice, and he has become strong and brave enough to offer the sacrifice. It was an amazingly powerful ending (I sobbed through the last 30 pages). Courage, loyalty, justice, righteousness, humility and sacrifice all collided into one big explosion of love to conquer evil. It was a thoroughly Christian message.

* Professor Snape, Harry's thorn-in-the-side, is trying to teach him to close his mind in order to protect Harry from Voldemort. Snape tells Harry to shut down all emotions. Harry struggles with this (partly because he has such strong negative emotions for Professor Snape) and Snape becomes impatient. He tells Harry if he can't master himself, how can he hope to conquer Voldemort. In a different context, the words of Professor Snape could be instruction in the spiritual life. If we cannot master ourselves and our emotions, we cannot hope to conquer evil in our lives. One little crack and evil can come in. I was so surprised by Snape's words that I read them aloud to my husband. (Alas, I do not have that book in front of me, so I cannot quote his words exactly--I have paraphrased)

*At one point, Voldemort tries to take possession of Harry's mind, but at that moment Harry is consumed with grief at the death of his godfather. Voldemort experiences the greatest pain he has ever felt and cannot possess Harry. Dumbledore explains that Voldemort cannot touch Harry because Harry's greatest weapon is his heart. Harry's love is more powerful than any curse Voldemort can produce.

* A poignant moment occurs near the end of the last book. Dumbledore is explaining many things to Harry and points out the noble character Harry has developed. At this point, Harry is in possession of 3 powerful but potentially dangerous magical objects. Dumbledore, the wisest and most honorable of wizards, tells Harry that he discovered that he, himself, did not handle great power well. But Harry, on the other hand, was not tempted by great power and used these objects to strengthen his resolve to sacrifice himself for his friends. Very powerful, indeed. In the end, he destroys the power that these 3 objects contain.

* Harry, although being continually attacked, never kills anyone. Voldemort is destroyed, but Harry does not kill him. In fact, Harry shows mercy to a fellow student who has tormented Harry from book 1. He befriends the "nerdy" kids, saves his cousin's life (the cousin who has treated Harry so cruelly), and TWICE gives up the glory of winning an important contest to "do the right thing".

I will not say that the Potter books are without their concerns, as I have outlined above. But the good in them greatly overshadows any questionable content. I would be happy to discuss the Potter series with anyone who has questions or concerns. Please share your insights, both positive and negative, with me in the comment section, if you wish.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Happy 4th Birthday, Annie!

Happy 4th birthday, Sweet Annie! We are so glad God made you part of our family. You have brought much joy and laughter to our lives and we love you so much! God bless you today and always.



Monday, July 6, 2009

Miscellany

So much is going on here right now, I have had little blogging time. So I think I'll share some miscellaneous "stuff" with you:

* We had a fun 4th of July cookout at our house, complete with fireworks, a flag cake, family and friends.

* In the process of packing away last year's school books and organizing, purging, etc...I decided, after much urging from my husband and encouragement from my sister-in-law, to sell some unused curriculum (well a LOT of unused curriculum -- gathered over 15 years) on ebay. I totally underestimated how fun it is to watch the balance in my account increase with each passing day!! And I still have lots more stuff to sell!

* Still plugging away at lesson planning for next year. Here are the plans I have already firmed up:
For Samuel
*Samuel's First Holy Communion Notebook
* Magic School Bus Science -- plans I am writing up and will share when complete
* Saxon Math 3
* Classical Writing Primer - Autumn
* Serendipity Alphabet Path (at co-op with cousins) we have had so much fun with this!!!
* Music -- Learning to play the recorder
* Art -- Art appreciation with Ethan using Seton Art 5, studying artwork depicting the mysteries of the Rosary and creating their own Rosary masterpieces.

For Ethan
* Growing with Grammar 5
* Teaching Textbooks 5
* Little Latin Readers
* IEW History-based writing lessons--I love these!!!
* Serendipity American History Trail with the Geography
* Magic School Bus Science (see above)
* Music (see above)
* Art (see above)
* still figuring out his religion program, but it will include the Blue Knights program as well as the Miniature Mass Kit lessons (as will Sam's)

Still working on Isaac's 12th grade curriculum

* Have I mentioned that my sister-in-law is a genius? We were both puzzling about what to do with grammar since the latin and composition programs we have been doing with our kids in our little family co-op have grammar built in. We didn't want to over do it, but wanted make sure they understood the grammar in these other programs. Well, she found a new grammar program that looks GREAT! I hesitate to endorse it too strongly, because I find I need to spend some time with a program and use it for a while before I can decide if it fills the need, but it looks REALLY, REALLY good!! I am excited to use it (and to purchase it with my ebay earnings!!) Thanks, Serena! Check it out if you like and let me know what you think: Growing with Grammar

*Annie turns 4 on Sunday. Oh how the time flies! She is such a different character, growing up with all these older siblings. She has a much less sheltered childhood than her oldest brother and sister. The other day, I was helping her pick out a movie to watch. When I asked her preference, she replied with a voice dripping with sarcasm, "Hello?...Cinderella!" After seeing the shocked and unhappy look on my face, she said, "Is 'hello' a bad word?"

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Small Successes

I read Elizabeth's post today and completely understood where she was coming from. Things have not been going so great around here either, nothing major, but nothing to write home on the blog about. I don't like the idea of posting negative stuff, but at the same time want to be 'real'. It's a balancing act, and lately I have chosen to be quiet rather than share anything unpleasant. Again, it's nothing serious, just the normal messes and stresses that happen in life--all at once, while it's been raining for 14 days straight. SoI will try to look at the positives and count my small successes:

1. In between rain showers, we picked a full flat of strawberries, even though it is NOT a good year for strawberries in this area. We worked hard for those sweet, juicy berries this year. Plus those berries are cleaned, hulled and in the freezer waiting to be made into yummy strawberry/orange/banana smoothies tomorrow morning!

2. My daughter's beau (her word) told me yesterday how much our family had affected him in a positive way. His words were very sweet and a soothing balm for this mom, who has had a rough couple of weeks.

3. I will turn 44 on the 4th of July. Is getting older a success? Well, the way I see it, yes! The antidote for getting older is dying! No thanks, I'd rather grow old. Plus, if we are truly "working out our salvation with fear and trembling" as St. Paul says, we must grow and change with each passing year. I consider the personal and spiritual growth that comes with increased age a success! And I wouldn't trade it for wrinkle-free skin or my former (non-gray) hair color!

Well, I do feel better now. Visit Faith and Family Live for more success stories!